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M3slice · Tue Nov 28, 2006 6:48 pm Should we be official? or is it too soon?

I have been talking to this girl for a good month and a half or so, she has slept over, we talk to eachother everyday, kiss eachother before i drop her off or visa versa somewhere and it feels like we are basically going out but just not official. Does anyone have any input of what you think I should do or say to bring it up? or is it too soon?

PC Oibo · Tue Nov 28, 2006 7:58 pm

I think you should ask her how she feels and ask her if she wants to bring it to the next level. But remember I have never been in a huge relationship so I must be doing something wrong.

Azer Kriemhild · Tue Nov 28, 2006 8:59 pm

Of course, I could just be saying this because my new nickname is Devious AJ, but there are ways you could find out what she thinks without necessarily putting yourself out in the open or making her feel rushed etcetera. For instance, you could get someone you trust to "bump into you" while the two of you are out having coffee or something like that - you chat a little bit, then excuse yourself to go to the bathroom, and then while you're gone, your friend could then ask the girl something along the lines of "so are you guys like a couple or something?" Or you could go the straightforward approach. Not to quote the man above me, but my last relationship ended a year and a half ago and I still have her number on my cell so that if she calls I'll see her name and know not to answer. Come to think of it, really you should do the exact opposite of whatever I think is a good idea.

smoked 2point5 · Tue Nov 28, 2006 9:11 pm

fucking lame!!!! if u guys are cool and all, why are u scarred about asking her if u guys are a couple? Then again I too have a friend like that, but we dont hang out everyday...were just friends so im not sure, could just be a best friend, but kissing? hmmm might be a step above a friend.... :roll:

PC Oibo · Tue Nov 28, 2006 9:19 pm

I really like Adam's Idea on bumping into her and using a friend to ask. This can show how she feels plus how she feels on coming out with you guys. Dennis F you, you don't have the balls to ask people out either so if i were you I would STFU :).

smoked 2point5 · Tue Nov 28, 2006 9:35 pm

PC Oibo wrote: I really like Adam's Idea on bumping into her and using a friend to ask. This can show how she feels plus how she feels on coming out with you guys. Dennis F you, you don't have the balls to ask people out either so if i were you I would STFU :). yeah f me....since theres so many girls out here in pc, that are into asian guys....U forget that this is the south and most girls and their parents dont approve of interracial relationships, besides the ghetto ass ones....

Biturbowned · Wed Nov 29, 2006 11:43 am

now now guys, Greg you know my opinion, but I'm not always right. Good luck w/ whatever you choose

M3slice · Wed Nov 29, 2006 12:29 pm

Thats true, when I brought alex down he was like where are all the girls, If i still lived in PC I dont know what I would do, the only times I would ever see girls would be at the beach and they are all in Highschool still.. which for some people like that haha

smoked 2point5 · Wed Nov 29, 2006 2:06 pm

haha yeah mr punanni :lol:

Dabomberman · Wed Nov 29, 2006 4:46 pm

Kissing is a bit much to be only friends in my book, but my book is a bit more conservative than most kids our age and younger... If you like her well enough, you should trust her well enough to give you a straightforward answer if you were to ask her. Asking someone how they feel isn't as a big a deal as people make it out to be. Just make it clear that you want to the truth, none of that "so I don't hurt your feelings" crap otherwise they're just wasting your time.

Biturbowned · Wed Nov 29, 2006 7:10 pm

Dabomberman wrote: Kissing is a bit much to be only friends in my book, but my book is a bit more conservative than most kids our age and younger... If you like her well enough, you should trust her well enough to give you a straightforward answer if you were to ask her. Asking someone how they feel isn't as a big a deal as people make it out to be. Just make it clear that you want to the truth, none of that "so I don't hurt your feelings" crap otherwise they're just wasting your time.

totally agree here, this is the jist of what I said to Greg on the phone. Take initiative and put the ball in her court

Azer Kriemhild · Wed Nov 29, 2006 8:30 pm

Yeah, don't get me wrong - I don't have any problems with the straightforward approach, and it's usually the best (though not always safest) way to go. I'm just a coward of no small regard, and so come up with back-assward ways of dealing with more sensitive issues (see: complete history of all my relationships. It's a quick read.)

PC Oibo · Wed Nov 29, 2006 9:09 pm

I Like Sex (Borat)!!!

smoked 2point5 · Wed Nov 29, 2006 11:20 pm

smoked 2point5 wrote: fucking lame!!!! if u guys are cool and all, why are u scarred about asking her if u guys are a couple? :roll: as I said

Azer Kriemhild · Thu Nov 30, 2006 5:21 pm

PC Oibo wrote: I Like Sex (Borat)!!! I'm going to have to go with Albert on this one.

smoked 2point5 · Thu Nov 30, 2006 8:14 pm

soundclip anyone?